Jiawen

My dorm mate Yang yang is a different person in the dorm. When she is in the school, she looks clean. However, I think she is a dirty girl in the dorm. She always comes to my room to play computer and to do my homework. She putted pens, notebooks, computers in my room. Her stuff covered my desk. It was too messy. She love eating food, and leave the trash in my room, it makes my room smell really bad. However, most of times, she takes shower two days a time. I always ask her to take a shower. On weekends, I can’t even stand her. She didn’t even brush her teeth, dress up, and made hair. She looks too weak and dirty. I asked her why, but she didn’t even change. She didn’t do anything in her room. She said that Marie would argue with her. I really hope one day she can change. I don’t want to clean and organized my room for her every day. She makes my room messy, it makes me really uncomfortable.

Ethan’s advice:
You can chat with her and tell her what you think. You can also tell her if she takes many things on the table and make your table messy. You can tell her to clean it, because that is your table. I know you will feel empress, but you can tell her very kind. I think she will know you.

To Ethan:
Thanks you for your advice. However, I tried to talk with her last time. Even she said she knew she would clean it, she wait more and more minutes, she didn’t clean it. Few days past, she made my room messy again. I think she didn’t care and put inside to remember, because we are good friends. I think I need to find a useful way to solve this problem. I don’t want to talk to her again. I believe one day, someday will talk to her, and she will change it.